Burgaw NC Divorce Lawyer

To get a divorce in Burgaw, North Carolina, the Pender County courts require that spouses be legally separated for more than one year and one of the spouses must have resided in North Carolina for at least six months. If either spouse resides in Pender County, then the divorce is properly filed in Pender County.

Pender County, North Carolina Family Court system

Burgaw, NC is the county seat of Pender County and court is held in Burgaw. Pender County does not have a Family Court system but does assign all family court cases to the Honorable James H. Faison, III. Judge Faison usually hears all family court matters including child custody, child support, spousal support, and property division. Divorces are scheduled along with other family court matters but are generally heard on the first day of the family court session. The Trial Court Administrator is Ms. Lee Alexander. Court is usually held at the Frances Basden Judicial Annex, 100 South Dickerson Street, Burgaw, NC or at the Main Courthouse at 100 Wright Street, Burgaw, NC.

Why people divorce

The most often cited reason for divorce is money. Other reasons include infidelity, boredom, poor communication, incompatibility, lack of commitment, sexual problems, abuse, and addiction (e.g., substance abuse and/or alcoholism). An individual who is the victim of domestic violence should seek help from a domestic violence shelter immediately. Domestic Violence cases in Pender County may be heard by any District Court Judge of the Fifth Judicial District. We encourage others to attempt marriage counseling before seeking a divorce. Talk to a mental health professional about the situation—can the problems be resolved through marriage counseling or is the conflict too great?

Estimate your post-divorce financial situation

Use a Financial Standing Affidavit (FSA)  to determine if your income covers monthly basic necessities to live separately. Consider your income and expenses, and check your credit report. The court will require that you file an FSA or similar document to justify your claim for post separation support and/or alimony as part of the divorce. While you may be interested in estimating child support or alimony, exclude these from the examination, as you don’t know exactly how much a Pender County court will award. If you’re financially unable to live separately, consider where the extra income will come from—a friend or relative, second job, career change, or other avenue — until your claims for post separation support and alimony are resolved. The Pender County Family Court system hears cases rather quickly and a Child Support / PSS claim is often heard within 45–90 days of filing. And if you’re in an  abusive relationship, it’s important to leave now, regardless of financial considerations.

Consider the effect of divorce on your children

Divorce can be especially difficult for your children. Answer their questions honestly, while avoiding temptation to harp on your spouse’s flaws. Divorce affects them as well, and they will appreciate your openness. However, don’t involve children in adult issues and don’t discuss any pending or planned litigation. Children should not be aware of the disputes between parents. We strongly recommend you consider attending a parenting class for divorced parents.

Be ready to negotiate

Though it can be difficult to concede anything to your spouse, especially if abuse or infidelity is a factor, compromise can save you anxiety, time, and money. An attorney can point out your options, helping you carefully negotiate division of assets, child custody and visitation.

Divorce by Power of Attorney

While an attorney in fact can handle most litigation under a valid power of attorney, it is our position that person cannot handle a divorce for you. Our Court of Appeals has held that “an action for divorce based upon one year’s separation cannot be maintained by a general guardian….” See Freeman v. Freeman, 34 N.C.App. 301, 237 S.E.2d. 857 (1977).